Tagay Para sa Ex: When One Simple Get-Together Brings Everything Out

What starts as a simple, supposed-to-be good and friendly gathering can quickly turn into something you never expected. That is what makes “Tagay Para sa Ex” an enjoyable and relatable watch. What seems like an ordinary night with friends slowly opens up conversations about love, relationships, friendship, and the things people usually keep to themselves.

“Tagay Para sa Ex” is BoxStage Manila’s first production, written and directed by Dudz Teraña. What I liked about the play is how it takes a very familiar setting and makes you feel that you are actually part of the group. The moment you see the stage, you already get that feeling. You are not simply watching these friends talk. You feel like you are sitting with them, listening to their stories, laughing at their jokes, and waiting for the next thing that will come out. The only thing missing is the actual “tagay.”

The "tagay"-ready set

The gathering feels even more real because of the way the conversations happen. There is noise, there are different conversations happening at the same time, and people sometimes talk over each other. But surprisingly, you are still able to understand what is going on. It feels like being in a real gathering where everyone has something to say and every conversation has its own story. And just like in any friend group, there is always that one person who makes an effort to bring everyone back together. For me, that person is Buknoy Gonzales as Poch, who is probably the character I can relate to the most. Poch feels like the friend who wants everyone to be okay and keeps trying to hold the group together even when things start getting complicated.

A big part of the fun is seeing the different views on relationships, especially between #TeamGirls and #TeamBoys. Yesh Burce as Liz and Brigitta Marilla as Mich easily earn your sympathy. Their side speaks to the part of us that still believes in the kind of love we hope for. They give us the “fantasy” and the “sana ganito” moments, making you think about the kind of relationship you wish you could have.

On the other side, Jel Tarun as Benj and Kobie Hachero as Mark give us a more practical view of commitment. Their characters remind us that relationships are not only about love and staying together. They are also about growing together, supporting each other, and learning how to become better people while being with someone. Their side gives the audience a much-needed reality check.

What makes this exchange of ideas more interesting is that the characters do not stay on opposite sides for the entire play. There is a nice turnaround in the way #TeamBoys and #TeamGirls see relationships. The boys become more vulnerable and reveal how they can also hold on tightly to relationships, while the girls begin to question whether they should still continue asking for the things they want from their partners. This shift gives the play a good balance because it shows that both sides can dream, doubt, hurt, and become vulnerable.

And that balance is what makes “Tagay Para sa Ex” work. It does not try to make relationships look simple. Instead, it shows how complicated they can become when friends start talking honestly. One moment you are laughing, and the next, you are thinking about your own experiences with love and relationships.

The play is a wonderful mix of comedy and drama, set in a situation that feels very common and very modern. It is easy to connect with because you probably know people like these characters, or maybe you see a little bit of yourself in them. It feels like one of those nights when friends get together for a drink, only for the conversation to slowly become deeper than anyone expected.

That is the charm of “Tagay Para sa Ex.” It makes you laugh, gives you something to think about, and reminds you that behind every relationship story are people simply trying to figure things out.

And sometimes, all it takes is one gathering, a few friends, and a little tagay to bring everything out.

“Tagay Para sa Ex” runs until September 5.